Life Complete ~ a dinner

Last light touches the pink petunias in the window box. We hold hands. It’s dinnertime. We ready for our ritual feast with a quick scan of the table. Ketchup…Check. A1 sauce…Check. Steak knives…Check.

Each night we choose our blessing style, a song, take-turns spoken grace or silence. Tonight we choose a song. They sing low. I sing high. We bless the sunshine and the rain, the green beans and the french fries, the many hands that picked our vegetables, the earth that held them, the cow we grilled, the journey of the folks who brought our food to the grocery.

The dogs lay on the deck in a sunset slice. We place napkins in our laps.

“Do you know what would make my life complete?” our 13-year-old son asks.

My husband peeps over his glasses. My green bean fork u-turns and rests on my plate.

“What would that be?” I ask.

“A chimp with buck teeth,” he answers.

I hear a bird symphony. My eyes blink. Four eyebrows raise. I forget about my green beans.

“So Mom… what would make your life complete? he asks.

I experience a very long moment. The answer comes. “World peace,” I say.

“An end to hunger,” his father says.

“Hmm…good answers,” he pipes.

“Oh and one more thing,” he adds. “I also need a robotic ant.”

Laugh lines deepen. Knives and forks point to three o’clock. The dogs race to discover leftover treasures in the summer grass.

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J. Scott DriscollNovember 29, 2009 - 9:56 pm

Amy,
I had such fun at Dorothy & Johns wedding with you I wanted to visit your site! Your shots really do take breath away! I also enjoyed reading others emotions and feelings for you! You seem to have an eye on life that captures and inspires people!
So nice to have met you and I am really looking foward to seeing your work on November 21, 2009.
Sincere Regards,
Scott

amyJuly 17, 2009 - 6:15 am

Hi Becca, The birds woke me up this morning quite early. It was dark, coffee was hot in the pot, a candle was lit in the center of the kitchen table and I was alone. I sat on the deck and listened to the birds, rubbed the dogs in the favorite ah! spot and remembered to listen. It took a while as I found myself running over the day’s to do list. And then I remembered to feel the warm cup in my hands and hear dawn. The house is still quiet. Doors open to let in cool night air and a confused songbird flutters on my bookshelf. I open the door wider and leave. When I return the bird is gone. Love, Amy

amyJuly 17, 2009 - 6:06 am

Hi Linda, And your comment reminds me to do the same. Thank you. Love, Amy

linda craytonJuly 17, 2009 - 5:31 am

You are held in a special place in my heart. You remind me to slow down. To find meaning. To be in touch. Thanks for sharing a sweet family moment to remind me again.

becca spearsJuly 7, 2009 - 8:28 am

Amy,
I am thankful that you make space in your life to stop, really pay attention to it, and articulate it back to us so beautifully. You have such a gift for communication. Actually being able to do justice to the achingly beautiful experiences of life. You are an inspiration and a gift :)

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